AS LIFE GOES ON…

You’re never too late to learn anything. Live while learning and learn while living. People who doesn’t want to learn are people who will depend on other people, and they’re the ones who will piss people off for their lack of curiosity in life. Curiosity, I should say is a gift.(If you do not agree with me, you may leave this page now) Not everyone are born with it. Are you constantly asking why and how to things that you dont understand? Or you just agreed on whatever other people say cos you’re too lazy to move the nerves on your brain and question them? For me, I think curiosity is an important tool for independence. Curiosity is a thing that wont age, nor slip away. So start questioning, do you have your curiosity? If you do not have it, then make yourself have at least the artificial bit of curiosity. A curious kid ace much better than a quiet kid…meaning to say, curious people are usually successful (well, curious on the right kind of things!) Come to think about it, Curious is a nice, and sleek name. I may be wrong about the curious bit, but I dare not say Einstein’s wrong. Successful and Curious. They should rhyme.

Everyone needs a life support. Life support can be of many things, ranging from families to loved ones, to friends, to money, to food, or anything else that matters. Life is meant to encourage and be encouraged. Speak of nice words, because your words will mean alot to a particular person. For me, I have many life supports. I think its good to find many supports, in case one of them fails you. Life is fragile. It needs to be taken care of properly. If you happen to read this, then start off today by saying something nice to someone who mean alot to you. Say something that has no sarcasm. If you wanna sarcast people, then say it to someone who doesn’t mean anything to you. Live life to the fullest. Do not regret. If you think you will regret, then don’t do it. The thing with time is that, it doesn’t travel back. It only travel forward. So stop and think about whats gonna happen next instead of reminiscing what had happened. Live Love Laugh. Not forgetting, Pray and Hope.

You think you’re not pretty. There’s always someone uglier.

You want more money. People are in poverty.

You want a boyfriend. Someone doesnt even have parents.

You’re hungry. A child is starving.

You want to go to the mall. Someone is looking for anything they can wear just to stay warm.

You’re chilly. Others are frozen.

You just want to die. Most people want to live.

You want new things. Your olds can save a person’s life.

So dont waste your time on things that you think you want becase there is always somoene out there who needs it much more than you could possibly ever know. Cherish life, with what you have. Work hard to achieve things, because life isn’t free. Someday, you will have to return it to the Creator.

Love at first sight. I love this painting.. I felt a sense of happiness, yet much sadness and story in the guy’s eyes. This piece of art explained a dozens of feelings, in every way it could. I could stare at it for as long as I could and flashes of stories keeps building.

Adapted from http://missedconnectionsny.blogspot.com/

.. of Romance as Bread.

Have you ever wondered, why people say love is blind? Or is it not? In my opinion, I think love is blind in certain ways, such as overlooking a person’s bad habits. But overlooking romance as the ultimate source of life? I have a story to tell. A story where an innocent girl fell in love at a young age and then falls deep into tragedy, willingly.

Being the youngest of the family, she is sort of the spoilt one, because whatever she want, most of the time it would arrive in her hands. And there goes, of the story of a spoiled girl. Not very good in her studies, she struggles in the science stream. Feeling intimated my her classmates, she began to mix around a wrong group of friends. Love is in the air. Girl likes boy, but boy doesn’t like girl. Her self esteem was lower than the deepest trench of the dead sea. And maybe, thats the reason how she ended up in this not-supposed-to-happen love, a love that brings no future, gives no permission and is constantly being challenged. But she stayed true to this love, because for her, she got nothing left, no confidence, no studies, no future…and she only got this guy who suffer similarly, probably worse.

The warm house that she used to have, she rather throw it away.

The closeness of family love, she prefer not to have it.

The future that still shine lightly for her, she rather give it up and join the guy into a future-less world where everything is uncertain.

Without families, home and education, where can she go with only one thing on her back; love?

Can love bring a person to life? Can love give you money? Can love satisfy you future family’s needs? Can love rule everything? The problem is, how long can this love last? When this love ends, what is left? She had been told of all these by her parents, but she choose to ignore these because her love told her to ignore everyone. Her romance, is her bread. Her romance gave her food, and she believes that it will provide her food forever.

From my understanding of love, it is mutual caring. Love and life is a separate thing that can be joined together and shall have their own boundaries, each being mutually exclusive. God gave you life and asks you to love. And yes, you live your life and love. One day, your love is gone. But you continue your life and find a new love. You don’t end your life. This concept tells us that we have to live a proper life, around families and friends, having a job, having doggies around, enjoying sports and at the same time, sharing love. It isn’t giving up everything just so love could exist.

Just a piece of advice from the Bible. God always comes first. Secondly comes parents, thirdly come siblings and fourthly comes romance. After marriage, then the rule change. God still comes first, and your partner will come second, because marriage brings 2 individuals together and it is by this vow that made them into one infront of God’s eyes.

A beginning of a tragic love story, I sincerely wish this girl the best of luck.

Tell me the difference between a good and a bad romance. x

Eliminate the word ‘regret’ off from our minds. Regret doesn’t exist in the world. Living in regretfulness is the worse feeling ever, so difficult to be described and this word brings ache to the heart and tears to the eyes. So why live in regret when you can actually move on, seeing the other side of the world rather than flash-backing into the dark world that you used to live in. The world is full of possibilities and opportunities. If you screwed up this time, seek a new chance and do your best so you won’t screw it up again next time. Never regret. If its good, then its wonderful. If it’s bad, then lets call it experience. After all, life is full of experiences that make us grow up. Mistakes are bounded to our lives, and we just have to pick it up and learn from it.

…..which means, if I screw up in my exams starting in 24 hours time, its just a bad experience. I’ll just do better next semester

I have this thing for animals, that when I see poor animals struggling to survive, they’ll break my heart more than anything, including humans. Comparing a poor human and a poor animal, I will sympathize the animal more, because I know animals are actually quite dependent as they do not have many skills that humans have. They can’t earn for their living. They can only go around scraping for food around garbage areas. I stumbled upon Animal Shelter in Brunei, and there are many many sad stray dogs that were ran over by irresponsible people, leaving them in heavy wounds and paralysis. One even had maggots in it’s wounds due to straying for too long. Almost everyday, along the highway, at least an animal would be ran over, until their remains disappear as cars come and go.  It’s really a sad state to see innocent animals bearing these kind of pain. All they wanted was just to live, and yet, they have to suffer under the hands of cold hearted, irresponsible, hair brained, ill-considered individuals.

Adorable monkey. Aren’t they just too cute to be denied a life?

I wan’t to believe that animals belong to heaven, too.

My Buddy turned 3. If I have a wish, I wish all dogs (animals) can have their birthday celebrated.